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Scarlett
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| 04/04/2009 11:13 AM |
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| If a man says that it does not bother him that you have had sex before entering into a relationship with him and he has never had sex before. is that true? How does this realy make him feel? |
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Travis
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| 04/05/2009 8:55 AM |
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Well, for me, I would not feel great knowing that my gf has had sex before. But, i would understand that we all make mistakes and that I would forgive my gf.
If he says it doesn't bother him, then you might want to sit down and ask him again. Cause I think there's more he can say. I think if he thinks about it hard enough, it might bother him. Sometimes guys like to give cheap/short answers that don't really tell women how we really feel.
Hopefully that will work. God bless, and let us know how it goes. |
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~And in the end, The love you take
Is equal to the love you make~ |
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Scarlett
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| 04/05/2009 5:33 PM |
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Thank you so much for your replies and honesty! Well I did have a long discussion with him on the topic and the conclusion was something to this extent: He would rather be with me , a woman who understands the fullness of God’s grace and mercy because of where I have been in live- for all of that profoundly influenced the way I live now and how I serve Christ. Also when Jesus showed himself for the first time after he was resurrected it was not to the holy disciples but infact to Mary Magdelene... To him I am not who I am now because of what I did or did not do but coz of God’s grace. He said that he took all his preconceived notions of what a “godly woman” should be like and what he thought he deserved to God and just asked for His will, and then I happened :-)
I rest in God, who is the one that can turn any history into a testimony! ps. I did read for women only, in most cases it rea;;y helped, but in other cases it just lead to more questions, which I suspect is normal?
blessings |
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